Keinsafan...

Ku dipenuhi keinsafan pabila ku menjejakkan kaki ke tanah perkuburan
Lebih sayu hati ku bila mengenangkan mereka yang telah pergi
Terbayang-bayang wajah mereka di dalam fikiran ku

Pagi ini, daku, abah, pakcik dan makcik ku serta sepupu ku telah menziarahi tanah perkuburan..
As usual, kita mulakan dengan bersarapan di RESTU restaurant
Thosai menjadi pilihan ku

Lalu setelah habis bersarapan, kita menuju ke destinasi
Di sepanjang perjalanan, daku teringatkan tentang pengalaman ku menziarahi seseorang diri
Sesat ku dibuat nya
Tidak satu pun yang dapat ku temui
Tapi syukur lah
Setelah lamanyer, daku dapat menziarahi kubur lagi,
lebih2 lagi, melawat arwah adik ku
Ya, adik ku yang telah lama pergi
Yang ku kasihi
Masih terbayang wajahnyer di fikiran ku

Setelah melawat beberapa kubur,
tibalah ke giliran arwah adikku
Alangkah sayu nyer hati ku, melihat keadaan kubur adik ku,
Batu nisan nyer senget
Tidak terurus
Haiz, abah mengeluh kerana nampak nyer kubur adik ku tidak di jaga, dan ditukar papan nyer
walaupun telah dibayar duit nyer
Hati ku sedih,
Rasa ingin menangis sahaja disitu
Dan seperti ku tidak mahu berjalan jauh dari kubur adikku
Alangkah rindu nye aku kepada nyer
Sudah lama ku tidak mimpikan nyer
Ku ingin bertemunyer sekali lagi
Ya ALLAH, kabulkan permintaan ku ini

Dan melihat rendah nyer langit,
dan awan2 yang menyelubungi kubur dari terik mentari
Ku menjadi insaf
kerana hidup ini hanyalah sementara
Dan tidak aku ingin mensia-siakan hidup ini
Aku berazam untuk menjadi seorang insan yang taat pada semua
Ya ALLAH, ampuni segala dosaku
Dan rahmatilah pada mereka yang telah pergi...
Amin

The secrets of a successful relationship....

1. Love yourself
Unless you love yourself, it's hard for you to believe that anyone else will.
Self-esteem is important for a healthy relationship. When you truly like yourself, in spite of any failings and weaknesses you may have, you'll feel confident. And when you feel confident and secure within yourself, you can enjoy being with your partner for the joy they bring to your life, not because you feel you need them to survive.
If you've had bad experiences in the past, it's worth working through these issues with a trusted friend or counsellor. It can be tempting to lean on your partner and rely on them for reassurance, but the stronger you are as an individual, the stronger and more equal your relationship will be.

2. Like your partner
Healthy relationships happen between two people who really like each other. It may be more romantic to talk about love, but it's important to remember that love is an emotion that comes and goes.
If you genuinely like each other, enjoy being together, agree with how each other thinks and behaves, and share the same dreams in life, then loving feelings will never be too far away.
It's important to tell your partner you like them, too. Warm words of encouragement and support build trust and respect. Add the odd compliment as well and you'll be helping to boost their self-esteem.

3. Make quality time
The importance of things can be measured by the amount of time we're willing to give them. When a couple first gets together, they instinctively prioritise their relationship. But as time goes by and life gets busier with work and children, time together often slips down the list of priorities.
If you don't spend regular quality time together, chances are you'll drift apart. Making such time for each other may mean sacrificing other activities, but remember it's an investment in your future happiness.

4. Communicate
Good communication is essential for a healthy relationship. It's the only way you can tell your partner who you are, what you want and why you behave the way you do. Talking is the way we let each other into our private worlds.
Communicating better is about learning to say openly and honestly exactly what you think and feel. It also means listening to your partner without judgement.

5. Argue well
It's important to accept that arguments are a normal part of a relationship. We're all unique and so we're bound to have our differences.
Couples who argue well don't have to worry about not always agreeing. A good argument is an opportunity to share your feelings and strengthen your bond by reaching a decision you're both happy with. It can be an experience that leaves you both feeling more confident about your relationship and brings you closer together.

6. Touch every day
Touching is a vital human need. Studies have shown that without touching, many animals - including humans - will die in childhood. Being caressed also lowers blood pressure and releases natural opiates in the brain, as well as the chemical oxytocin, which is essential for human pair-bonding.
Touch has the power to comfort and support, to protect and encourage, to relax and, of course, to arouse. Every couple knows their sex life may have dry periods, but our need for physical affection never changes.

7. Accept change
People change over the years and it's these changes that can keep a relationship alive. Life changes too - and not always in ways that we want.
Change can provide opportunities for growth and intimacy, but it can also be painful. It may mean adjusting to a new way of thinking or a new way of life. It may also mean letting go of things that have been familiar and safe.
In successful relationships, couples learn to adapt and change together. They accept that change is an inevitable part of human life and support each other, for better for worse.
Keeping all seven principles going isn't easy, but the more you can manage on a regular basis, the stronger your relationships will be.

BLue Mooooooo

Without fail, Budak Pantai never fails to entertain my heart.
Got to know at the very last minute that they are performing last night
Head down to YMCA after work last evening, despite the rain just hours before
Lucky for me, the skies clear up
And the stars start appearing one by one, together with the crescent moon
providing a nice backdrop for the night.
Back to Budak Pantai (BP), their renditions of All Rise and Unbreak my heart
helps me bring back a laughter in me
for that moment at least.
At least.....

Oh, seems like I have failed to consistently update my blog.. hahaha
as usual i guess
And to cuzzies... sorry about the pictures
Well upload it soon
hehehe

Anyway, Raya this year
Yet again, it lacks the sparks
Apa ke tidak, jalan raya 3 rumah
Boring nyer!!!
At least I get to meet all my cousins this year
Yes... All of them
Including my long lost abang Sharul
Glad to see him once more

At work, I wonder its just because its Friday
To my amazement
My student has been looking for me in class while I was away doing Friday prayers
Its really amazing as he is afraid of me and he will cling on to his maid
There he was, looking at me where ever I go
And extending his hands asking me to take him
Aint that cute
After almost 16 weeks I took him
Finally he surprises me with something
Hope for more surprises at the end of this semester
hehehe
Wonder what it will be

And wonder I am, thinking of someone
Not worried but just missing
Here I am, mugging at home
In front of this PC
Not knowing what to do

Hey maybe i should go for a ride....
Yeah I should....
Till the next update

Aku hanya seorang insan biasa
Tak kurangnya cacat cela pada diriku ini
Dan tak jauh dari salah dan silap
Hanya padamu ku mememinta dan momohon
Berikanlah pedoman hidup
Untuk ku melalui ranjau hidup ini

As the months pass by

As the months pass by,
You have showered me with love
respect, comfort, care and concern
There are many more things that you had given me
Therefore i shall cherish all that

Its been 5 months now that we have been together
Its not a smooth sailing journey
But i reckon that it is something worthwhile journey
One that we learnt more about each other
And through all that, we simply complement each other

Sayang
I am never able to say enough
To thank you for all that you have done for me
Only god can repay you for what you have shown me and the things that you have done

I will pray that the days, months and hopefully years to come will be a simply magical for us
One that will always be remebered
cherished
and appreciated
by both of us

This 5 months has been simply awesome
Thanks syg
And Happy Anniversary to you my beau
Simply me, you and us......